Lessons of Our Fathers

Father is supposed to know best. But does he? Are his enduring lessons taught by determination as he strives to pass along life-guiding values? Or by accident, as a man doing the best he can — and some not even that. By words? Or by example?
Hence our question in this year’s edition of our annual effort to understand that great life role: What lesson did your father teach you — intentionally or otherwise — that guides you to this day?
To add some spice, this Father’s Day we sought out yin-yang pairings, both timely and enduring: opposing candidates in the June 24 Primary Election … actors in dramatic conflict … sister and brother … husband and wife.
With one exception, each son and daughter spoke spontaneously in conversation with a Bay Weekly interviewer; Anthony Brown replied with a prepared statement by email.
Competing Democratic candidates for Governor
Anthony Brown, Maryland Lieutenant GovernorMy father, Roy H. Brown, rose out of poverty in Kingston, Jamaica, and overcame incredible odds to become a doctor. As a loving husband and father, he worked tirelessly to provide every opportunity for his children. As a family physician, he donated his services to those in need of care. He taught me that it is our responsibility in life to serve our community and help others before helping ourselves. |
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Doug Gansler: Maryland Attorney GeneralThis is what comes to mind: I was a second semester high school senior, a fun year when you’re very self-absorbed, wrapped up in friends and thoughts of going to college. My father told me we had a long-lost cousin in Montevideo, Uruguay, and that he thought it would be a good idea for me to go there, live and work with him in a leather belt factory for a couple of months. I vividly remember that conversation. |
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Heather Mizeur, State Delegate My father, Dale Mizeur, a 32-year-member of the United Auto Workers, gave me these words of wisdom that have guided me for a lifetime: “Have an opinion, stand up for it and don’t let anyone tell you you can’t — especially a boy,” he’d say, which has come in handy in this campaign. |
We got the team started, and though my freshman year we didn’t win a lot of games, we left a legacy. My oldest niece, Gracie, played on that team, and they won big. It was wonderful to see what came from stepping forward, having a vision, being dedicated, rallying others and never taking no for an answer. |
Competing Republican candidates for Anne Arundel County Executive
Laura NeumanFrom my father, I learned that I should work hard. He was a hard worker but challenged to stay with a job, so building financial security became very important to me. |
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Steve Schuh My father passed away two years ago. He was a great man and unquestionably the most important influence in my life. He taught me the importance of family, of putting family first. He taught me the value of hard work; and he taught me the value of leading a straight and ethical life. I miss my father, and I love him very much. |
Brothers in Theater
Jim Reiter
Jim Reiter plays Gordon in Colonial Players’ Dead Man’s Cell Phone, which opens Friday, June 13, and closes the theatre’s 65th season. Gordon is the older brother and “mover and shaker,” beloved by his mother — but not so much by his younger brother Dwight, played by Nick Beschen.
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